(This post will contain weights and numbers and could be triggering for some, please do not read if suffering)
I wanted to write this post because its been a long road, but a good one. It is going to cover some of what I’ve been through over the last few months in changing my weight and turning my depression on it’s head. It started 13 weeks ago and is entering it’s second phase and I really wanted to share how positive an experience it’s been.
I want to include a couple of pictures here, to show the differences in 18mths in myself and how my body has changes in the last 13 weeks too.
This was where I started off in 2014. with my journey at The Wellness Centre in Burscough. But after all the good I did, I hurt my back and started off with 2015 as one of the worst years in our lives, I hadn’t realised how much I was comfort eating at work. (I drive a food delivery truck and the weight piled on, till I hit rock bottom and breaking point at 17 stone 2lbs.
The bottom line is where I am at now.
I wasn’t one for pictures. But these were some taken last year, and early this year.
This was part way through my journey with Lipotrim.
And this is me now 🙂
What I really wanted to discuss, was the change in my attitude though. After suffering with eating disorders for most of my life, I went into this knowing all the risks, all the ways it could go wrong, and all the ways it could go right. I decided that this was for me and that this was a decision I could make as an adult.
So I did it, I went for it, I struggled, I battled through the weekly regime and I have reached my set goal weight.
When I was attending Cheadle Royal Eating Disorders Unit, My weight went from 88kg and dropped to 71kg, this was after losing both my grandparents, and virtually not eating anything but yoghurt for 5 mths. I was in a bad place, but the Unit and the staff there helped me see why I did things and why I used food as a crutch, when food was no longer an issue in 2007 I turned to alcohol and Self Harm, it was a very bad year for me, but Cheadle Royal got me through it and in 2010 I was discharged from them at 83kg.
I have gone from 109kg to just under 83kg, and this is a good weight for me. I am happy, but this journey doesn’t stop here, because I need to carry on and be healthy. After going Total Food Replacement, I am now re-introducing foods again. I admit I was a little apprehensive of doing this. But, I was also armed with the re-feeding I did at Cheadle Royal.
This last week, I’ve been introducing healthy foods. Yey! and because this week has been such a milestone in my life. Reaching my target weight, and receiving the proof copy of my first novel, we went out to celebrate last night and I also had my first Vodka and Coke in 13 weeks.
With the help of The Wellness Centre now I have different goals. I do still want to reduce my body fat down some because I want to build my muscle back up again. My metabolic rate is the lowest I’ve seen it in a long time, and this also needs to pick up.
So, healthy eating and good foods. (It really tastes amazing now) and exercise.
For a treat, I booked a photo shoot for the 12th September. I’ve never done this before. Never wanted to document my life in such a way. Camera’s scare me! but I would like some professional pictures for my books and websites, and to do it because I know I can.
Eating Disorders and Mental Illness suck, but with things we learn over the years, we can pool ourselves together and turn a horrible year into the best year.
Keep positive when you have doubts, keep active when you want to hide. But more than anything, never give up.
I am happy for your success. Thank you for sharing this post about your personal journey. You look great! Health, happiness, and attitude are everything.
Thank you, they sure are, I could only wish it for everyone 🙂
You’re across the ocean but my prayers are with you – and yes you have accomplished so much – let the stars continue to guide you in conquering and achieving all of your hearts desire. An eating disorder is a horrible illness and many people do not realize (smile – i use z instead of s) how challenging and crippling it can be and I see it as a mental illness that stagnates the mind from reaching out and doing what the physical body requires. I could go on and on – I met you on Script and I will never forget your kindness – that tells me a lot about a person’s character. I admire you for your tenacity – you found the door to enter and I can only see you keeping it open. You are talented woman and push depression behind a door and lock it and throw away the key.
Best wishes always – your writing pal in Calif
Thank you hun 🙂 x